Saturday, April 13, 2013

It's Not in the Numbers

I do not need to know:

Your income
The number of times you have sex each week
Your cholesterol count
Your credit score
Your college GPA
The amount you paid for your car
Your blood pressure
Your mortgage rate

They are all just numbers. They may be important to you and your ability to stay healthy, manage your finances, and pursue happiness, but they are private.  There is not one piece of information contained in these numbers that would enhance my relationship with you. 

Why is everyone sharing such personal information these days?  Why do folks seek validation from others on superficial matters?  When did we become a slave to our numbers?  Do a couple of numbers indicate superiority?  Do the right numbers mean that you are better than me?

Of course the answer is "NO."  Let's respect ourselves and each other a little more than we do.  Let's focus on the the types of things that could actually set us apart.  Let's focus on attributes, philosophies, and values that could enhance our relationship, whatever it may be.  In the times when it is necessary to focus on the numbers - keep them private.  Share them only with those who need to know and that would be a select few people.

And in the meantime - don't share your numbers with me.

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